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Leather & Lace – Lifeinstyle’s Boldest Night of the Year
Explore the World of Kinks, Style, and Freedom
Date: Saturday April 18
Doors Open: 4:00 PM
Price: $82 per couple
Location: St. Louis Metro Area
Dress Code: Dress to impress
What to Expect at Leather & Lace
Leather & Lace is one of Lifeinstyle’s most anticipated themed parties in the St. Louis lifestyle community. This event is designed for couples who want to explore the world of kinks, fetishes, and bold self-expression in a welcoming and private environment.
Our venue provides the perfect space to meet like-minded people, explore new connections, and enjoy a full night of themed entertainment.
Meet & Greet (5:00 PM)
The evening begins with a relaxed meet and greet where guests can settle in, grab a drink, and start socializing.
This is the perfect time to:
• Meet other couples
• Break the ice in a comfortable setting
• Explore the venue before the party builds
Many guests say this is where the best connections start.
The Room Crawl (6:00 PM – 9:00 PM)
One of the most popular parts of our events is the Lifeinstyle Room Crawl.
During the room crawl, participating guests decorate their hotel rooms and open them up for others to visit. Couples move from room to room throughout the hotel, meeting new people, sharing drinks, and enjoying creative themes.
Expect:
• Creative room setups
• Fun social interactions
• A relaxed environment to meet new friends
It’s a unique way to explore the event and connect with the community before the main party begins.
If you want to HOST a room crawl, contact us before the event contact@lifeinstylestl.com
Dance Party (10:00 PM – 2:00 AM)
Once the crawl wraps up, the energy shifts to the main dance party.
Music, lights, and a full party atmosphere take over the venue as guests hit the dance floor and enjoy the night together.
Dress in your best Leather & Lace look and enjoy one of the most electric parties in the Lifeinstyle calendar.
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Heated Pool Open at Night
Need a break from the dance floor?
Guests can also enjoy access to a heated pool area, perfect for relaxing, socializing, and cooling off during the night.
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Spanking Contest
One of the most entertaining moments of the night is our Leather & Lace Spanking Contest — a playful, high-energy crowd favorite that always gets the room cheering.
Couples take the stage to show off their chemistry, confidence, and creativity while the crowd watches, laughs, and decides who brings the most fun to the moment. It’s all about playful teasing, style, and performance.
Expect a lot of cheering, a lot of laughter, and a little bit of friendly competition as participants bring their best Leather & Lace attitude to the spotlight.
Guests love this part of the night because it adds a fun, interactive element to the party and keeps the energy building before the dance floor really heats up.
Think you’ve got what it takes?
You might just walk away with the title… and the loudest applause of the night.
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Private & Verified Event
All Lifeinstyle events are closed door and verified.
For the safety and comfort of our guests:
• Everyone must apply for an account
• All attendees are verified before the event
• Security is always present
• No door sales
• No approvals at the door
This ensures a safe, respectful environment for everyone attending.
Tickets & Hotel Rooms
Party tickets and hotel rooms are available now.
These themed parties are some of our most popular events, and rooms tend to sell out quickly.
Reserve your spot early to make sure you don’t miss Leather & Lace in St. Louis.
Tickets & Pricing
Saturday Party Ticket
$82 per couple
Room + Event Ticket (Saturday)
$199