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WITH DAWN AND JD
Lifeinstyle Newbie Night & Meet and Greet
Get ready for an sexy evening in St. Louis at Chilanguita Lounge, a hotspot where taste and style collide! Dawn and JD @SexyStlCpl, your gracious Lifeinstyle hosts, welcome you to Newbie Night on October 13th, a Lifeinstyle event that's not to be missed!!!
Date: Friday, October 13
Cover: 24 per couple, single females no cover
Start Time: 7:00 PM
Dress Code: Dress to impress
Audience: Open-minded couples, single females
Location: 6997 Chippewa St, St. Louis, MO 63109 **Must be a Lifeinstyle member to join the group**
What is a Lifestyle Meet and Greet?
A Meet and Greet is your gateway to new friendships and exciting connections within the Lifestyle community.
It's an informal, welcoming gathering where new and seasoned members can mingle, break the ice, and potentially form lasting relationships. We invite you to join us at 7:00 PM in the cozy Lounge area of Chilanguita, one of St. Louis's most Instagramable venues, to welcome all our new, sexy St. Louis couples who are taking their first steps into the Lifestyle. Whether you're an old hand or a newcomer yourself, come share a drink, a laugh, and maybe even make a special connection. Don't miss this St. Louis night to remember!
Let's glow Lifeinstyle!
SATURDAY JUNE 21
LOCATION: St. Louis Metro Area
Lifeinstyle Glow Party will be a COMPLETE HOTEL TAKEOVER | NEON DANCE PARTY | DJ | GLOW POOL | BYOB | NEON ROOM CRAWL | MUSIC | DANCE FLOOR
COUPLES AND SINGLE FEMALES ONLY
PARTY TICKET PER COUPLE: $69
**OPTIONAL HOTEL ACCOMODATIONS ON SITE: 120**
What is the Lifeinstyle Glow Party?
The Lifeinstyle Glow Party is a full hotel takeover experience like no other — a neon-lit, blacklight-charged weekend where sexy meets electric. Glowing bodies, pulsing beats, and high-energy vibes wrapped in a sea of UV paint and neon fashion. From the legendary Glow Room Crawl to late-night pool parties and our wild Glow Paint Contest, this is where the lifestyle comes alive under the lights. Whether you’re a party pro or new to the scene, you’ll find your vibe, your people, and your glow.
What to expect?
🏨 Neon Glow Room Crawl
Join the neon room crawl experience! Decorate your room with blacklights, neon decor, and party vibes. Open your doors, meet other sexy couples, and keep the party glowing all night. Want to be part of the crawl? Contact us to reserve your glow room spot!
💡 Full Glow Hotel Takeover
Step into a world transformed by thousands of watts of blacklight power! Every hallway, room, and dance floor will glow — we are creating the ultimate adult neon playground. Get ready to light up from head to toe.
🎨 Glow Paint Contest
Bring your creativity — and your body — to life with neon paint! Join our Glow Paint Contest for a chance to win Lifeinstyle prizes. Glow bright and show off your hottest UV designs on the dance floor.
🎶 DJ Dance Party
Feel the bass, catch the glow! Our DJ will keep the beats pumping all night long at our electrifying Glow Dance Party. Dress to impress, dance till dawn, and party harder with the hottest glow crowd around.
🍹 BYOB – Bring Your Own Booze
No lines, no expensive drinks — bring your own favorite booze and keep the party flowing your way.
🏊 Heated Glow Pool Party (After Hours)
After the dance floor cools down, the party heats up at the pool! Dive into our heated after-hours Glow Pool Party, where the blacklights and beats keep the energy alive until sunrise.
FAQ
What should I wear to the Lifeinstyle Glow Party?
Dress in your sexiest neon or white attire! Think blacklight-reactive clothes, UV body paint, bold accessories, and anything that will make you glow on the dance floor. The hotter, the better — let’s light up the night!
How do I join the Neon Glow Room Crawl?
It’s easy! Just decorate your hotel room with neon lights and glowing decorations, then contact us to be placed in the official Room Crawl area. Only registered crawl rooms will be part of the action — spots are limited!
Do I need tickets to join the party?
Yes! This is a private hotel takeover event. You’ll need to purchase a ticket and or reserve a room through Lifeinstyle to attend. Room and ticket packages are available — book early, this event will sell out.
Can I bring my own alcohol?
Absolutely — this event is BYOB! Bring your favorite drinks to enjoy in your room, during the room crawl, at the pool party, or on the dance floor. No cash bars, no hassle.
Is the Glow Pool Party included with my ticket?
Yes! The heated, after-hours Glow Pool Party is part of the full Glow Party experience. Just bring your swimsuit, neon accessories, and your best after-dark vibes.
When should I arrive and check-in?
Check-in time is 4:00 PM
Are there Lifeinstyle prizes for contests?
Yes! Winners of the Glow Paint Contest and other surprise challenges during the event will win exclusive Lifeinstyle prizes and bragging rights for the ultimate glow-up.
Can I still come if I don’t decorate my room?
Of course! While the Glow Room Crawl is a huge part of the fun, you’re welcome to come glow on the dance floor, party in the common areas, hit the pool, and enjoy every part of the event even if you don’t participate in the crawl
National Swingers Weekend
National Swingers Weekend (NSW2025) is one of the biggest lifestyle celebrations in the country — a weekend where couples from across the U.S. come together to connect, party, and celebrate freedom, fun, and sexuality without shame.
Held annually in July, Lifeinstyle hosts one of the hottest NSW events in the Midwest, featuring:
🔥 A full resort takeover
🎉 5 days of themed parties
🛏️ Epic room crawls
🎶 Live DJs & sexy pool parties
💃 Themed night events, sexy contests, and surprises
Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned guest, NSW is where the entire country comes alive with community, energy, and unforgettable experiences.
If you're loving the vibe of the Glow Party, just wait until July — NSW2025 at the Lake of the Ozarks will be next-level.
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When it comes to Instagram-worthy spots in St. Louis, Chilanguita is a must-visit destination.
With its visually stunning Umbrella Patio and several Instagram-friendly LED signs and walls, this venue is a haven for social media enthusiasts. It's not just a place to grab a drink; it's a St. Louis hotspot where every corner is a photo opportunity. From the vibrant colors to the tastefully curated decor, La Chilanguita offers a backdrop for every mood and occasion. Gather up with friends for a memorable night and leave with your phone gallery full of eye-catching snapshots that capture the essence of St. Louis's dynamic social scene. Don't miss your chance to experience one of the most Instagramable places in St. Louis!
Now, what's a Lifeinstyle event without margaritas?
Chilanguita is serving up $7 margaritas all night, crafted carefully with lime juice, a dash of kosher salt, and a shake of your cocktail shaker. Food, drink, and stew are served to perfection, making for a flavorful, taste-great experience that complements the events of the night. Make sure to grab your tickets; they're just $24 per couple, and this is a members-only party. You must be a Lifeinstyle member to join us in St. Louis for this event.
Our bartenders are experts at crafting this classic cocktail. Fresh lime juice, premium tequila, orange liqueur, and a touch of agave syrup go into a cocktail shaker, and voilà! Don't forget the kosher salt around the rim, and if you want a hint of something extra, Grand Marnier is always an option for added sweetness.
Thirsty for more? We've got an extensive list of cocktail recipes featuring all the ingredients you'd want for a festive night. Add tequila to the mix or enjoy your birria tacos with an array of dipping sauces, from spicy to sweet. Our margaritas come in multiple flavors, crafted with lime, salt, and triple sec for that perfect blend of sweetness and tartness. The taste will have you dipping your taco in between sips!
St. Louis! Get ready for a night that'll blow your minds!
The second you walk into this St. Louis hotspot, you're gonna be hit with the mind-bending aroma of birria tacos. We're talking beef so tender it's been slow-cooked to melt-in-your-mouth perfection, alright? Seasoned with chili powder, dried peppers, and all kinds of spices, then garnished with Oaxaca cheese and cilantro.
We've got a kick-ass DJ to make sure you get your groove on! This is a party in St. Louis that you're not gonna want to forget. We're blending the best of Mexico and the gateway city of St. Louis to offer you something you won't find at any other St. Louis restaurants. So, if you're new to the St. Louis Lifestyle or a grizzled vet, come on down and mix it up with the sexiest couples in St. Louis. Don't miss it!
