Hey there, welcome to the world of Lifestyle! You must be one of us, right? Someone who enjoys couples that are just like YOU and that are “LIFESTYLE”. But, do you really know what Lifestyle is all about? Is it all about swapping partners? Is everyone a swinger? Is it a giant free for all sex pileup? Relax, take a moment to digest this new and exciting chapter in your life!
SO, WHAT IS THE LIFESTYLE?
Firstly, let me explain that the swingers lifestyle is all about mutual agreement and consent. Couples or singles that engage in this lifestyle are open to exploring their sexuality with others. And, just so you know, this lifestyle is not considered cheating, as both parties (if a couple) are aware and have given their consent to engage with other people.
I’ve had numerous conversations with many of you discussing what Lifestyle really means. Sometimes, the definition can be so vague that it describes "the swingers lifestyle" as a “consensual arrangement where couples or individuals engage in sexual activities with other people outside of their relationships”. But let me tell you, that’s not it! There is way more than that and will be discussed in future blogs.
THIS IS NOT THE AUSTIN POWERS SWINGER LIFESTYLE ANYMORE!
Perhaps, our predecessors thought that they had it all figured out with big swinger parties Austin Powers style. But nowadays, Lifestyle reflects a very different atmosphere and style.
For us, Lifestyle means being a liberated individual who is in touch with their sexual desires and kinks, and also accepts that we are sexual beings. It can be difficult to accept that part of ourselves that we hide so deeply inside of us due to several cultural and religious stigmas. But, being part of the Lifestyle (specially a community) allows us to express ourselves without judgment and in a safe and consensual environment. Talk to your partner about your fantasies!
IS LIFESTYLE ALL ABOUT SWAPPING PARTNERS?
Under the umbrella of Lifestyle, we see a lot of different practices and kinks that come very close together. Some Lifestyle people dip their toes in swinging, while others enjoy polyamory. Some are voyeurs, exhibitionists, nudists, or into BDSM, and the list goes on! What is your Kink?
THE LIFESTYLE REVOLUTION IS HERE
We are currently experiencing a Lifestyle revolution in the last decade, where couples are breaking the norm of what “society” has taught them to be moral and OK. This is a very exciting time for most of us!! We started that way! Relearning what we have been taught from childhood is a complex endeavor.
WE ARE A LIFESTYLE COMMUNITY!
At Lifestyle, we have been very vocal about the importance of acceptance of this Lifestyle phenomenon. We believe that “the Lifestyle” is one of the most overlooked alternative lifestyles these days. We are not here to f* everyone. We are a community, and acceptance will make our community deeper and stronger. We are here to hang out and interact with people just like us.
So, welcome to the Lifestyle, and let’s have some fun! There are many more like you here 😊
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